How Neurodivergent Women Hold Multiple Selves at Once
Maggie Evans Maggie Evans

How Neurodivergent Women Hold Multiple Selves at Once

For neurodivergent women navigating a late ADHD or autism diagnosis — often in the same season as perimenopause — the question "which self is actually me?" can feel urgent and exhausting. This essay explores the observer self as an adaptive response, a somatic capacity, and an ancient form of knowing, and offers a different way of holding the multiplicity that midlife tends to surface.

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I Asked AI to Help Me Understand a Relationship Issue and Here’s Where It Went All Wrong
Maggie Evans Maggie Evans

I Asked AI to Help Me Understand a Relationship Issue and Here’s Where It Went All Wrong

A therapist's honest take on why AI can't replace real therapy — and what the mental health tech industry doesn't want you to know.

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How to Harness ADHD Hyperfocus for Creative Breakthrough
Maggie Evans Maggie Evans

How to Harness ADHD Hyperfocus for Creative Breakthrough

ADHD creativity runs on cycles of intensity. When something grabs your interest, your brain can hyperfocus for hours, producing work at a speed and depth that honestly seems superhuman. You're IN it. Time becomes irrelevant. You're channeling something.

When you're not in that state, even simple creative tasks feel like wading through wet cement in winter boots.

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